Arguments about small things are a signal that it’s time to find the big issues and firmly, but lovingly put an end to them. When I was working on my degree in clinical psychology, I lived in a small apartment with paper thin walls in Vista, California. The neighbors who lived on the west…
No one wants to fight, but they do anyway. Understand why and what you can do about it. If you have an occasional fight, that’s alright It happens to the best of us. The real measure of a good marriage or committed relationship is not whether or not there are fights, but how long it…
No one has to be lonely in their marriage Read and Learn from My Client, Janet Janet had been married for 15 years but told me that she had been feeling emotionally lonely for the last 14 years. Her husband was not abusive and spent time with time with her. They talked and laughed…
Don’t let his refusal spell the end for your relationship Your husband won’t work on the relationship, but he doesn’t want to lose it either. What is going on? What can you do about it? Seemingly, your husband would love for you to change things about yourself so that he can enjoy the relationship better,…
Women can lose their attraction to their husbands for many reasons. You can stimulate her attraction again. Women want to be attracted to their husbands Men want to look at their wives and think that they’re hot. They want that feeling like they can’t wait to get home at night to be with their…
Six steps you can do alone or with your spouse to fix your marriage and become closer. 1. Identify the main issue causing problems. Just as a huge truck tire can become completely useless from a little hole, our marriages can be drained of love from one single issue. Love could be draining out…
Why some men stop loving their wives and what you can do about it Angela was starting to despair When she first contacted me she doubted if her husband loved her anymore. But, she loved him. When she tried to talk to him, he insisted that nothing was wrong, but she could see that…
Loving your wife is not enough if she doesn’t feel it. Fortunately, you have a lot of control over that. If you love her so much, why is she loving you less? When women start to lose their feelings of love for a man, they reason that it must be something about the man. They…
Getting respected will make sharing easier and intimacy deeper. What are the changes that will help you to get more respect? Start by listening to your feelings Your feelings are like traffic signals for your behavior. “Green” feelings (the good ones) mean keep it up, “red” ones (bad, bad, feelings) mean stop right away,…
Why your husband, wife, or significant other is not appreciating all your efforts and how you can turn that around, starting today Feeling used signals your relationship is getting worse, but it can also signal that it is time to start making it better. You have in front of you right now an opportunity…