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Finally...A self-help book for women with really difficult partners!

What to Do When He Won't Change book

What to Do When He Won't Change


A Guide for Men and Women Who Want to Emotionally Reconnect with Their Spouse

Connecting Through Yes! book

Connecting Through “Yes!”

“What would have to happen to restore a loving relationship with your husband today?”

(This help is for women. If you are a man, click here)


Coach Jack ItoHello, I'm Coach Jack,

The odds are that no matter what relationship problem you have, solving it is going to begin with good communication. People tell me that they don't want to argue or complain, but that they just don't know how to handle the way their husband talks to them (or doesn't talk).

But you can start learning today for free ...

If you want to be able to trust your husband with your innermost thoughts and desires,

If you want to share intimate moments together and feel like you are One,

And if you want to be able to put behind you all those problems that get in the way...

Then take this opportunity to get 5 communication lessons from a professional marriage and relationship coach...ME!

Each lesson covers one key communication skill and gives you examples so that you will know how to put it to use in your relationship right away.

These are the same methods that I teach my clients to make a loving, emotional connections, even when they and their husbands have become emotionally distant.

With these lessons, there will be no need to wait for your spouse to somehow improve. You will know what to do and how to do it.


These lessons, my GIFT to you, may be the one resource you need to turn things around

With them, you will learn to ...

These lessons will help you get your message across to your husband in a secure and loving that helps him or her to both respect you and love you.

No strings attached

To get your free communication lessons, just sign up below.

Why am I giving this to you for free? Because I believe that once you see that you have the power to improve your relationship, you won't want to stop. I want to earn your trust so that you will feel comfortable to call on me if you ever need help in the future.

It's all very do-able, and you'll be able to use these communication methods no matter what your situation--that is, if you don't let your fears get the best of you.

Enjoy the lessons!


Jack Ito PHD

Marriage & Relationship Coach

It was pretty ugly. I think I hated him at times...

female coaching client testimonial

33 Year Old Married Woman

(California, USA)


It was pretty ugly. I think I hated my husband at times. I didn't want to be with him and I was scared to be on my own. I really didn't consider that we could make things work out, much less that I could ever love him again. Whoever you are, don't think that coaching is hard. It's MUCH harder to get up every day not knowing what's going to happen, but knowing whatever it is, it isn't going to be good. Coach Jack really is a life saver as much as a love saver. I don't know what I would have done without him. (Used with permission).


“I was pretty confused ... but Coach Jack really helped me to take things one step at a time.”

female coaching client testimonial

44 Year Old Married Woman

(Rhode Island, USA)


I think I was pretty confused when I started with Coach Jack, but he really helped me to figure things out and take things one step at a time. I know a lot of the things we did to make my marriage work again weren't really easy, but Coach Jack led me a step at a time and that really helped. I'm thick headed, but Jack always made me feel like I could do it. I guess the thing I think new clients should know is that you just have to start. I mean, you don't have to figure it all out at once. (Used with Permission).


“I was trying really hard to make him love me...but he was just respecting me less and less.”

female coaching client testimonial

30 Year Old Married Woman

(California, USA)


It seems like I had it all backwards. I was trying really hard to make him love me, and being careful all the time not to upset him, but he was just respecting me less and less. When I increased my value for myself and took responsibility for what I did, it brought about almost an instant change in my husband. Now, he listens to me when I talk and he talks more to me, too. I still have a ways to go, but thanks to Coach Jack, things are getting better. (Used with permission).