Help for Wives

No one has to be lonely in their marriage   Read and Learn from My Client, Janet Janet had been married for 15 years but told me that she had been feeling emotionally lonely for the last 14 years.  Her husband was not abusive and spent time with time with her.  They talked and laughed…

Don’t let his refusal spell the end for your relationship Your husband won’t work on the relationship, but he doesn’t want to lose it either.  What is going on?  What can you do about it? Seemingly, your husband would love for you to change things about yourself so that he can enjoy the relationship better,…

Why some men stop loving their wives and what you can do about it   Angela was starting to despair When she first contacted me she doubted if her husband loved her anymore. But, she loved him. When she tried to talk to him, he insisted that nothing was wrong, but she could see that…

Getting respected will make sharing easier and intimacy deeper. What are the changes that will help you to get more respect?   Start by listening to your feelings Your feelings are like traffic signals for your behavior.  “Green” feelings (the good ones) mean keep it up, “red” ones (bad, bad, feelings) mean stop right away,…

Hurting you hurts him too. Learn to help the both of you by ending the abuse without ending the relationship.   If your husband, wife, or significant other is emotionally abusing you, you are not to blame No matter what an abused person has done, abuse always starts in the mind of the person doing…

(Click Here for Part I) How to get his respect and his love   John starts shouting almost before he closes the front door.  Whatever he’s got to say, has been building all day.  As he shouts, red faced, squint eyed, scowling at his wife Carol, she says nothing.  John even pauses at times to…