Husband Won’t Go to Counseling? Here’s How You Can Handle this Situation

Don’t let his refusal spell the end for your relationship Your husband won’t work on the relationship, but he doesn’t want to lose it either.  What is going on?  What can you do about it? Seemingly, your husband would love for you to change things about yourself so that he can enjoy the relationship better, …

Get Respect from Your Husband and Improve Your Relationship

Getting respected will make sharing easier and intimacy deeper. What are the changes that will help you to get more respect?   Start by listening to your feelings Your feelings are like traffic signals for your behavior.  “Green” feelings (the good ones) mean keep it up, “red” ones (bad, bad, feelings) mean stop right away, …

Emotional Abuse (Part I): Husbands Who Hurt, Wives Who Love

Hurting you hurts him too. Learn to help the both of you by ending the abuse without ending the relationship.   If your husband, wife, or significant other is emotionally abusing you, you are not to blame No matter what an abused person has done, abuse always starts in the mind of the person doing …

Emotional Abuse (Part II): Getting Your Husband to Stop Hurting You and Start Loving You

(Click Here for Part I) How to get his respect and his love   John starts shouting almost before he closes the front door.  Whatever he’s got to say, has been building all day.  As he shouts, red faced, squint eyed, scowling at his wife Carol, she says nothing.  John even pauses at times to …

Attract Men for Long Term Relationships and Marriage

The average man is not attracted to a woman for her relationship potential. But, you don’t have to settle for attracting the average man.   Everyone naturally wants to be attractive and have a wonderful relationship. You do, I do, and your next door neighbor does.  The great thing about that is there are a …