Marriage Arguments: Fighting About Little Things Can Mean a Lot

Arguments about small things are a signal that it’s time to find the big issues and firmly, but lovingly put an end to them.   When I was working on my degree in clinical psychology, I lived in a small apartment with paper thin walls in Vista, California. The neighbors who lived on the west …

Making Up After Fighting: 10 Proven Methods for Your Marriage

No one wants to fight, but they do anyway. Understand why and what you can do about it. If you have an occasional fight, that’s alright It happens to the best of us. The real measure of a good marriage or committed relationship is not whether or not there are fights, but how long it …

Husband Won’t Go to Counseling? Here’s How You Can Handle this Situation

Don’t let his refusal spell the end for your relationship Your husband won’t work on the relationship, but he doesn’t want to lose it either.  What is going on?  What can you do about it? Seemingly, your husband would love for you to change things about yourself so that he can enjoy the relationship better, …

Wife Not Attracted to You Anymore? Here are Eight Ways to Rebuild Her Attraction and Desire for You

Women can lose their attraction to their husbands for many reasons. You can stimulate her attraction again.   Women want to be attracted to their husbands Men want to look at their wives and think that they’re hot.  They want that feeling like they can’t wait to get home at night to be with their …

Get Respect from Your Husband and Improve Your Relationship

Getting respected will make sharing easier and intimacy deeper. What are the changes that will help you to get more respect?   Start by listening to your feelings Your feelings are like traffic signals for your behavior.  “Green” feelings (the good ones) mean keep it up, “red” ones (bad, bad, feelings) mean stop right away, …

Feeling Used or Unappreciated in Your Marriage or Serious Relationship?

Why your husband, wife, or significant other is not appreciating all your efforts and how you can turn that around, starting today   Feeling used signals your relationship is getting worse, but it can also signal that it is time to start making it better. You have in front of you right now an opportunity …