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Sam knew a woman that he really liked.  He wanted her to really like him.  He asked her questions about herself

Ralph knew a woman that he really liked.  He wanted her to really like him.  He gave her many compliments

Bob knew a woman that he really liked.  He told her about how his ex-wife had been such a terrible woman..

John knew a woman that he really liked.  He talked about things that made him excited and dreams he had for his life.

On average, which of these men do you think would have more success attracting women?

Sam was good at getting women to become his friend, although they often didn’t want to date him.  He was a good listener, but it was hard to think of him romantically.

Ralph was good at getting dates with women who had low self esteem, but other women just thought he was trying too hard to get something from them.

Bob had a hard time getting dates, although women would often say sympathetic things to him.  Secretly, though, they thought him pathetic.

John had the most success.  Women became more interested in him because he was most interested in life.  He had something that they wanted.

Can you see yourself in any of these men?  Which one would you like to be most like?

Working with a relationship coach can make you more enthusiastic about life, which will make you more attractive to women.