Words and actions are all we have for interacting with others
The only things that you can use to influence other people are your words and your actions. Wishful thinking about the way you believe things “should be” will be absolutely ineffective in changing other people’s opinions of you or how they should interact with you.
If you want people to leave you alone, say things they don’t want to hear and take actions they definitely don’t like. You can have the peace you seek.
If, on the other hand, you want people to like you and want to be with you, then use words they want to hear and take actions that they like. Saying things that people want to hear is no more phony than saying things they don’t want to hear.
What is phony is when your words don’t match your actions. It is another way to drive people away. If you love your partner, then make your actions and words show it. If you want to find someone to love, then let your actions and words show it.
A relationship coach can help you to rebuild your relationship or find a great partner. I’ve been in the business of helping people with actions and words since 1994. Imagine what I can do for you.
Posted: March 31st, 2009 under Help for Singles, Improving Relationships, Marriage Counseling, Relationship Coaching, Relationship Communication.
Tags: action, attractiveness, reality, Relationship Communication